Nothing is more important than our relationships, because relationships affect every part of our life. It is in our relationships that our deepest feelings arise. Our relationships can go from the depths of hurt, disappointment, rage, and grief to the heights of joy, love, anticipation, and ecstasy – sometimes all in the same day, and all within one relationship!
What is the biggest challenge you have in your relationships?
What we hear over and over again is, ‘Communication’!
Some people talk incessantly, as if in a desperate attempt to be heard and validated, but instead end up driving people away. Others are very closed and secretive, as if they are afraid of being found out somehow. Still others seem to blame everything wrong in their lives on others, then wonder why they feel isolated and alone. Some people never seem to listen, but are always quick either to talk about themselves, or to offer unsolicited advice.
Do you do any of these things in your relationships? Do you know anyone who does? When someone is speaking to us, are we busy thinking about what we want to say so that sometimes we don’t even hear the other person? Do we feel safe letting people know when we are afraid or insecure, or do we think we are supposed to appear strong and in control to be loved or respected? Can you freely talk about the things that are truly important to you, as well as the things that bother you, or are you afraid of appearing vulnerable and foolish?
Partnerships are vulnerable to misunderstandings, miscommunications, upsets and breakdowns. Our communication is not just the words we say; it is how we say those words. In fact, experts tell us that only 7% of the total meaning of our speaking exists in the words we say. The rest is contained in tone of voice, inflection, volume, and body language.
Usually, when we have problems and misunderstandings, we tend to think there is something wrong with us, or the other person, or both. The more disappointments we have over time, the more this attitude is reinforced.
Relationships of all kinds are subject to negative repetitive patterns of thought, belief, emotion and behavior. These patterns can be triggered by absolutely anything, a look, a voice tone, word, or gesture.
Often we notice we have been caught up in a negative pattern in hindsight, declaring, “Why did I do that? I know better than that!”
Negative relationship patterns usually begin in childhood and are reinforced over time, resulting in a chain of automatic, uncontrollable projections and reactions. When the links in these chains of energy are neutralized (with EFT) there is new freedom to make wiser choices in the midst of difficult situations. The energy that is liberated from the old pattern can then be used to intentionally create our desired relationships.
If you would like to organize a Relationship Class, please phone Jeanine at 403-249-7999
IN THIS CLASS YOU WILL LEARN:
- The 10 Steps to clear and heal, with EFT, chronic negative relationship patterns.
- How to neutralize your automatic projections and reactions
- To address the negative repetitive patterns at their roots
- Why many relationships never survive the Power Struggle stage in their relationship
- The price tag that comes with practicing radical personal responsibility
- To discover your biggest emotional drivers in upsets
EFT WILL HELP YOU WITH:
- Practicing high performance communication
- Essential skills for success in attraction, cooperation, and synergy
- Using a design model to consciously create your relationships
- The most important ingredient for a successful relationship
- How to use relationships for conscious evolution
This Program will help you to develop powerfully practical skills to:
- Feel closer, safer and more connected to others
- Truly be yourself with those you care most about
- Ask for –and get- what you want
- Feel truly heard and understood by others
- Gain confidence speaking your mind and revealing your heart
If you would like to organize a Relationship Class, please phone Jeanine at 403-249-7999